One of the most concerning realities for parents is they may be unable to raise their kids to adulthood. Someone else may need to raise your child if you become incapacitated or die before they become adults.
But who should you choose?
Someone who can take care of your child
A loved one loving your child does not mean they can raise them. You want a guardian physically, emotionally and financially able to take care of your child’s needs.
For example, will your chosen party give your child adequate time and energy? Will their schedule allow them to help your child with homework daily or attend school functions?
Someone whose values closely match yours
Consider choosing a loved one whose values closely match yours, including parenting style, educational views, religious beliefs and so on. This way, it can be more manageable for your child to cope with their new life since some sense of familiarity will be maintained.
Someone who lives near you
Consider choosing a guardian who lives near you. It can be beneficial for your child to stay close to family, friends, school activities and so on. However, if your most suitable party lives far away, your child can move. You can come up with solutions on how they will stay connected with their loved ones.
Someone with an existing bond with your child
Chances are your child has a special attachment to one of your loved ones. It can be easier for your child to live with someone they are comfortable with already, provided the party in question possesses your non-negotiable qualities.
Planning for your kid’s future without you in the picture can be upsetting, but it’s necessary. Obtain as much information as possible to make the right choice.
